Today, England take on Germany for a place in the quarter-finals of Euro 2020.
It is an international fixture like no other, not least because of the memorable Italia 90 World Cup semi-final, which Sir Bobby’s team so narrowly lost on penalties.
Ahead of the match at Wembley, Sir Bobby’s son, Mark, has been reflecting on that night, 31 years ago in Turin, and how special this particular fixture is.
Mark says: “Like every England fan, I can’t wait for kick off but I’m also a pretty nervous, too. England against Germany always has the potential for excitement but not necessarily a win for us!
“I know Dad would be absolutely riveted to the Euros and, as a proud Englishman, he’d be backing England to go all the way. Gareth’s done a magnificent job and I think Dad would be very impressed at the way he’s handling himself in what is a very difficult role.
Paul Gascoigne, Mark Robson and Terry Butcher during Italia 90
“Obviously, thinking about England versus Germany brings back a lot of memories for fans. I was at Italia 90 but thinking back to the Stadio delle Alpi and that night in Turin, my strongest memories now are of family, not football. I wish we had some family photographs
of the night.
“My most vivid memories now are of my Grandad, who meant the world to Dad. He was a miner from County Durham, like my Dad was to begin with.
Sir Bobby’s parents, Lillian and Phillip at home in Langley Park
“Dad was so proud of Grandad’s work ethic and there’s no doubt it influenced him greatly. Grandad worked down the mines for 52 years and only had two days off sick in all that time.
“Grandad was 87 when he died. And that was just a year or two after Italia 90. He was so proud of Dad. I know he was proud of all five of his sons, but it was quite something watching Grandad trying to keep it together when he was watching his son as the England manager at a World Cup semi-final.
“Grandad never missed an England game at Wembley but he never stayed overnight in London. He’d always get the train home, no matter how late it was. He’d get the milk train back to Newcastle and wouldn’t get to Langley Park until the early hours. We always thought that was because he wanted to get back home for our Grandma. So, for him to go all the way to Italy, was a very big deal.
“I vividly remember him on the plane and travelling by coach to the ground and inside the stadium in Turin. He barely spoke. He was just wide-eyed and silent. He was so proud and emotional.
Terry Butcher and Paul Gascoigne leaving the England hotel in 1990
“He’d only been out of the country once before, and that was for Dad’s first match as England manager in Denmark in 1982, and here he was, transported from Langley Park into the heat of Turin and the tension of a World Cup semi-final. And his son was centre stage.
“It’s staggering really. It was an overwhelming game for England’s supporters, so imagine what it must have been like for my Grandad. I don’t know how he took it all in.
Sir Bobby, Mark, family and friends in Sardinia at Italia 90
“I have a very strong memory of the bus ride after the game up into the hills to a restaurant for refreshments, but is was at least midnight by then. It was so sombre, as you’d expect. It was difficult to know what to say. We were all in a bit of a shock I suppose.
“But Dad was like Grandad. That work ethic of his kept him going after the crushing disappointment of Turin and he did what he always did. Got prepared for the next challenge and the next match.”